Why are you sooooo lazy? Actually, it's because you're built for it. You're only here because your ancestors were great at doing as little as possible and eating everything in sight.
Women not only have to shake off the self-doubt that everyone struggles with, you also have to break down a lifetime of being told not to outshine men, and centuries of being expected to take a backseat. Un-learned is often harder than learning, and it's a lifelong process.
Goals are good. Systems are better. There, I said it. Why? Because without a system, goals are just wishes and fantasies. You can't just want a thing, you have to make a plan to achieve that thing. On the other hand, a system without a goal still leads to growth and progress.